How To Stay Safe Using Grindr

My best friend was nabbed by hoodlums. He is the careful type but the trick used by the thugs bypassed his careful nature. He was beaten. His phones were taken. Allow me withhold how much money was withdrawn with his ATM and the time he got home in the dark morning. The cause? A hook... Continue Reading →


Fortune and The Evil of a Hook up 

Some stories stream into our lives with the resonance of events that happen to far away people - they are never about people within our circle, people we know. A desire to connect leads us straight into an ambush. In the midst of the conundrum, we are nothing but a blend of humiliating rage. Yet,... Continue Reading →

Why It’s OK to Identify as Bisexual

Every gay man has a friend (or knows someone who has a friend) that, despite evidence pointing to the true nature of his sexuality, identifies as bisexual. It can seem quite odd hearing this friend (whom we sense with forbidding-certainty swings the gay way) confess his bisexuality. ‎In moments like this, we might find ourselves... Continue Reading →

Raising (Broken) Boys

It seems obvious, and it is worthy of restatement: boys are meant to be masculine and girls are meant to be feminine. This dichotomy has been with the human race since the earth began. We, as a culture, need men to be men. Its better that way. Society as a whole functions better when everyone... Continue Reading →

Up ↑