If you are a man with a female flare chances are you’ve had people tell you to tone it down or to man up
Here are some reasons to ignore them and keep your fabulousity
1. It filters out the rubbish
Those that admire you will gravitate towards you leaving out those with frowns on their faces to remain at a distance asking questions like why this one dey behave like woman? that only God knows the answer to.
2. It’s more honest
Don’t deny it. When you don’t have to put up a false voice, walk with your legs wide apart with your ass swayless, and keep your shoulders stiff, life is a thousand times easier. You can laugh hard, play hard and enjoy hard. Most importantly, you can be true.
3. Life becomes what it should be: simple
No need to labour through all the lies you’ve told in search of new ones to cover your ass.
When someone asks do you have a girlfriend? You can say no (with a face that spells distaste). And when they ask why you can say what you’ve always wanted to say: my personal life is none of your
fucking business. Or, if you are feeling a bit generous, tell em about the boy you fell in love with in J.S.S. 1, thinking you will live happily ever after. Only for you to dump the boy in J.S.S. 2 because you could no longer stand his childish ways. Trust me, with this story, do-you-have-a-girlfriend questions will plumet.
4. People love you more.
In my book nothing is more seductive than is a true person. But that’s just me. Ever knew a person who had a repute for being a liar? Count the number of friends he has. People like honesty. You just have to be smart about it. When you hit it right, you’ll be surprised by the love that’ll surround you.
Now it may not always be safe to be true but it’s important. If you are having a hard time deciding, imagine you were a woman with boobs and someone told you you needed to hide your boobs so as to appear normal. Ridiculous, yeah? Well as ridiculous as someone telling you to “tone down” whatever feminine attributes you have. You are fabulous. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.
You are Awesome